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Donna Marie Law posted a condolence
Rick was a good man and a good brother--certainly he had his ups and downs, but, hey, who doesn't? My hope for Rick is that he is at peace within himself and that he has taken all of his accomplishments in sports and in his helping other children and families through his job.
"Hey Rick,It's Groundhog Day"!!!!!!! Byron sends his prayers and peace to you and so do I~~ along with my love and the good memories and laughter we shared. I will remember you always, my dear brother...God Bless You and be in peace, until we meet again...Your loving sister, Donna Marie
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Donna posted a condolence
Ed--So many memories-some not so good--but many good memories-which outweigh the bad. As you have told me a hundred times (or more)Rick loved us and knew that we loved him and that is something that cannot be taken away from us. Be at peace with all we did with Rick and believe that he is now with God. Probably teaching God how to "shoot hoops"! I know you miss him and so do I-and we always will. God Bless, Donna
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Aunt Donna posted a condolence
Jeremy and Courtney--there are no words to truly express how one feels when we lose a parent. Please know that your Dad loved you both very much. He was so proud of both of you. He took all of his memories of you both with him in his heart. Keep your fond memories forever and keep your Dad always in your hearts. God Bless, Aunt Donna
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Marion posted a condolence
Rick,
you helped me in a very difficult time and I will always be grateful for that. I wish we would have had more time together. I know that you are in peace now and that's what matters.
I will love you forever.
Marion
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qdm posted a condolence
Rick and his sister Donna were dear friends of mine and I am so saddened that the family, with the assistance of an "outsider", (who should have only been "guiding" her children and not pushing into something she is no longer a part of"), would be ignorant to her feelings in not providing the courtesy to be a part of Rick's preparations and especially, to refuse her the chance to say a proper and personal "good-bye" to the brother she took such care of. Why would you allow one brother and not a sister the chance for privacy? She was there when everyone else was not. At least she knows that Rick loved her and that he knew her love for him. (This is not the time for martyrdom and hypocrisy). May you all rest well with all of the things that you have done against a family member and the man who is no longer with us... This is NOT what Rick wanted.
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Jeremy posted a condolence
Everyone is welcome to pay their respects on Sunday March 7, 2010 from 3-5pm at the address found on this website. I chose to arrange the funeral in this way specifically because I wanted to give all of my father's family and friends a chance to properly say goodbye. His sudden passing has been difficult for us all and personally, I miss him already. I ask for everyone's cooperation during this time so that we can all focus on honoring the man we came to know and love.
RDG - you will always be my favorite DAD!
RIP
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Ed Gillam posted a condolence
Rick, I loved you from childhood on. You were my rock and my life. You said I was your rock the last few years. What a blessing for you to say that, it shows how much you trusted your brother. We had a bond. Rick, I loved you more than anyone and it's all good. Now I can give back what I have in honor of you. Half of me died that day, I'm so glad I was there with you that morning to give you one last hug.
I want to thank Courtney and Jeremy for being in my life. Just two more gifts. I thank Tina and Waverly for being there and their help.
Ed Gillam
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Marilyn Williamson posted a condolence
To Jeremy and Courtney: Your father was very special to our family and we did have some good memories as I'm sure you both have and these are the things that we must keep in our hearts. Although we really didn't know each other I always asked your father and your Aunt Donna and Uncle Mike how you were. You both are in our prayers and we wish you well. Jeanie, that's the name your family would know me by. I'm Jim, Kevin, Tracy and Tina's mom.
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Anonymous posted a condolence
This is for Morgan, who was also a special person in Rick's life. You and Rick shared so much love and happiness. We know that when Rick changed, it was hard on both of you. We know Rick still loved you up to the end and that you loved him as well. Remember all of the good times you shared as a couple. I know you are devasted now, just as his sister Donna and others are. But, Rick always wanted you to be happy and successful. Keep Rick in your heart...as you are in his...
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Amy posted a condolence
Rick, You showed incredible courage Monday night and I am fortunate to have shared your friendship. Thank you for talking basketball with me and watching the Olympics. I love you and miss you.
Good night......Amy
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tommy posted a condolence
I hardly knew you, but I did watch you play baseball. Lots of talent and energy. You are in a better place now to watch over those who love you. Your memory will live on forever.
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Byron Law posted a condolence
For my loving and generous wife, Donna~who is Rick's big sister~~~I know the pain who feel at the loss of your brother. Remember the good laughter you and Rick shared; like the songs you sang to each other "Would you like to swing on a star" and "The rubber tree" song and the many country-westerns you both imitated and cracked each other up! When Rick need you, you were there; and there were times you needed him and he was there for you. Rick knew you loved him and I know Rick loved you dearly too. Remember when you and Rick were "shooting hoops" up on the tennis court and how he "let you win"! The pain is so vivid now, but in time, the pain will ease, but, the memories will live on in your hearts, and Rick's heart too. Donna, you are a wonderful and loving wife and you were a loving sister to Rick. May God Bless You and take away your grief, and May God Bless Rick and keep him in peace forever more. (Rick: you know your sister will still talk to you...) By
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Amy posted a condolence
Good morning Rick,
I found the $10.00. Eddie has a good idea of where that money should go and of course you know just where that will be.
Thank you.
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Donna posted a condolence
Rick: Today is March 8, 2010, and today is the day you are truly at rest and at peace. Now you will get to that trip to Ireland that we talked about. By the way, I got your message this morning~~Thanks... Love and God Bless You, Donna
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Marion posted a condolence
Rick,
my phone did not ring for the last couple of days. Now I know you really gone. I miss you so much, you have no idea how much. I hope you keep watching over me and the kids.
We miss playing cards with you. I miss your daily phone calls to and from work. The only hope I have is that you in a better place now and that helps me dealing with the emptiness I feel.
You brought so much happiness to my life, I can not thank you enough for the short time we had together.
Rest in peace.
Love,
Marion
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EDDY posted a condolence
Rick I have our blanket.Ypu and me are tough you would be proud of me the last few days mom was so proud of you nobody can take it away you have to help and guide me what a handful that is your a trip thank you bro
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qdgl posted a condolence
Rick: My sincere hope is that you are in peace and are watching from above. You know that everyone has their own way of dealing with pain, anger,love,and death. You used to say "you gotta do, what you gotta do". It is my hope also, that your family will accept how each other is mourning their loss of you. There is no right or wrong way for grieving, it is up to the individual to do what they believe in their heart of hearts and what they had in their own relationship with you. Now, get back on the b-ball court and make some points in hoops! In love and grief of your passing...
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Donna posted a condolence
Ed: Through my tears, fears and grieving, I thank you...Love you all, too...
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Amy posted a condolence
Good Morning, Ricky,
As you know I'm at work and I just sealed an envelope to be mailed and I taped the envelope just like you told me. It made me smile thinking about you.
I miss you and your family and it is a good family.
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Joel David Ballezza posted a condolence
Sunday, May 19, 2019
I had the inspiring pleasure of playing hoops with Rick during the 1978 Al Donofrio tournament. What a shame we lost Rick when Scott Hinterleiter broke his wrist as we needed his incredible quickness in the finals against West Philly. I'm not surprised Rick became an All-American, and I wish to this day that I could just watch him. God bless Rick and his nagging internal organ troubles. Rest in peace, fly high!
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Thursday, April 30, 2015
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